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Changing Ourselves Only for Ourselves

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Self-image body issues is a type of psychological problem that can come in many types of forms. It’s something that I’ve suffered through myself and it has also been a challenge in the life of my girlfriend who has been struggling with it since she was a teen. It rose up again recently when she found breastenlargementresource.com after doing personal research on breast enlargement. She has always been self conscious about what she feels like are her small breasts. No matter how many times I tell her that I like her just the way she is, she still isn’t happy with herself.

Which is important. We should always rely more on ourselves to be happy than depend on what other people might think about us. Relying only upon what other people see us as can lead to all sorts of psychological trauma and problems. It’s exactly what happened to me. For so long I had always thought of myself as a good looking guy because finding a partner was something that came entirely too easy for me. When I suddenly found myself not being able to do just that I began to feel that I wasn’t attractive and realized that I was completely co-dependent on other people to fulfill my confidence.

It’s not a happy place to be. If you can’t learn to love yourself for the attributes you have or for the person that you are, you can quickly sink into a depression. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with breast enlargement but I think it’s important for any individual considering it to question themselves closely. They should be comfortable with themselves as they are and only want to make the changes for healthy reasons. Sometimes we may want to change something about ourselves which is fine – just do it for ourselves, and not for anyone else.


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